Sex is, without a doubt, one of the most beautiful and intimate things a person can experience with their partner. There are many ways and positions to enjoy sex and one of the most common ones is when a girl is on top. This particular position is very popular with members of the cougar dating niche because mature women are not afraid to take charge in bed.
This behavior, however hot it might be, can also confuse men. Some inexperienced fellas simply don’t know what to do or how to act when a woman is on top of them. So, if you have similar problems, here are some of the things you can do when your girl decides to go for a ride.
Give Her Some Feedback
Most women are generous lovers and all they want is to make their partners feel good during sex. Now, in order to please her guy, a woman has to see his facial expressions. So, besides the obvious dominant position, one of the main reasons why a woman loves to be on top is the fact that she can see her partner’s face.
Therefore, when a woman is on top, you should try your best to provide her with some feedback during your intercourse. This way, she’ll know whether or not she’s doing the right thing. So, if you’re enjoying yourself, make sure to let her know. It will mean a lot to her.
Your Hands Are Free, Use Them to Feel Her Body
This is one of the rare positions in sex when a guy’s hands are completely free. Even though this sounds nice, some guys usually don’t know what to do in this situation. The worst thing you can do is to keep your hands close to your body and not use them.
If you do this, you’ll seem like you’re not enjoying yourself and that will kill the mood. Therefore, use your hands to play with your partner’s body. Caress her breasts, play with her nipples and try to feel her body. Trust us, this will definitely make both of you very horny and you’ll have a great time.
Play With Her Hair
This might sound boring, especially when you have her whole body at your disposal, but playing with a woman’s hair during sex makes her feel beautiful and horny. You can either caress it gently or pull it hard if the sex is rough. Also, you’ll probably have to hold her hair in order to see her face when she’s on top, so it’s not only fun but useful too.
Feel Free to Play With Her Tushy
It doesn’t matter if you’re a boob man or a butt man, you should never neglect your partner’s tushy when she’s on top of you. Women love when men play with their asses because it turns them on. So, instead of just resting your arms on the bed, feel free to squeeze and slap her butt cheeks every once in a while when she’s riding you.
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As the founder and CEO of Wasteland.com, the Internet's oldest and most popular BDSM and alternative sexuality site, Colin Rowntree is a true pioneer of the online adult entertainment industry. Since launching Wasteland.com in 1994, Colin has developed a network of sites that encompasses the full breadth of adult business sectors, from content production and distribution to affiliate program management, mobile content delivery to transaction processing, just to name a handful. Colin's stature within the adult industry is reflected by the many honors and recognitions he has received over the years from adult industry media outlets and trade organizations, including his 2011 induction to the Adult Video News (AVN) Hall of Fame. Colin was also the recipient of the 2011 Leadership Award from the Free Speech Coalition (FSC) and winner of multiple awards from other adult media outlets.
Most recently, Colin co-founded Boodigo.com, a privacy-focused adult internet search engine that supports the adult industry in many ways.
An eloquent, witty and thought-provoking commentator, Colin is a frequent contributor to industry trade publications and websites, including Adult Video News and other media outlets. He has been interviewed by and featured on International Business Times, CNBC, Rolling Stone Magazine, BBC Television, the Fox Network, HBO, ABC Nightline, NewsCorp, Time and Wired magazines, Cnet.com and Bnet.com.Most recently, Colin was awarded the 2015 Progressive Leadership of the Year XBIZ Executive Award.