You know when you meet a girl via a friend, or you find one on a cougar dating site, and you find out that she sometimes cries during sex, so you immediately start backing away? Well, it happens more often than you’d think and, more importantly, there’s always a valid reason behind it.
As it happens, if a woman cries during intercourse, it doesn’t necessarily have to be bad. There’s no denying that this situation is a mood-killer 99% of the time (the one percent being fetishists who actually enjoy that sort of thing), and it usually signifies a more profound reason that should be assessed ASAP. In that regard, here’s why women cry in the middle of having sex.
The Reason Behind
Even though there is always a deep reason behind a woman crying mid-coitus, the reason itself can vary a lot from one girl to another. Some women cry because they suddenly remembered something really sad, others cry because they really, really don’t feel like having sex at the time and they’re forcing themselves to have intercourse, and some girls cry simply because.
In any case, a woman doesn’t have to be emotionally unstable in general to have something like this happen to her. While there’s usually a good reason behind it, a woman may begin crying during sex due to crazy hormones, which usually occurs during and after pregnancy.
But let’s focus on actual reasons that signify a more significant issue than crying during and after sex. Confusing feelings, physical pain, stress, frustrations, cheating, end of a relationship – these and more could all be hiding behind your girlfriend’s tears that you may witness while having sex with her. Whatever it is, you can bet all you have that something like this should be resolved without hesitation.
How to Fix it?
As we’ve said before, the cause for a girl crying during sex can go anywhere from very serious to very harmless. We will now look into “fixing” both sides of this spectrum appropriately.
If the reason is something serious, you and your girl need to talk about it not only to stop that from happening again but also to resolve whatever conflict or issue is causing such behavior. Some of those “heavy” reasons we’ve already mentioned could lead to you two not having sex with each other ever again if left unresolved.
On the other hand, if it turns out to be something benign, there’s no need to dwell on it for long. Sure, you can talk about it and figure out what both of you can do to prevent it in the future, but problems like these generally resolve themselves after a while.
At the end of the day, no type of sex should ever make a woman cry. If it happens, rush to her and comfort her, but also make sure to get to the bottom of things so that it doesn’t happen again and so that any serious problems that might be causing it can get solved.