Sex so Good it Makes you Cry: Why Women Cry in the Middle of Having Sex

You know when you meet a girl via a friend, or you find one on a cougar dating site, and you find out that she sometimes cries during sex, so you immediately start backing away? Well, it happens more often than you’d think and, more importantly, there’s always a valid reason behind it.

As it happens, if a woman cries during intercourse, it doesn’t necessarily have to be bad. There’s no denying that this situation is a mood-killer 99% of the time (the one percent being fetishists who actually enjoy that sort of thing),  and it usually signifies a more profound reason that should be assessed ASAP. In that regard, here’s why women cry in the middle of having sex.

The Reason Behind

Even though there is always a deep reason behind a woman crying mid-coitus, the reason itself can vary a lot from one girl to another. Some women cry because they suddenly remembered something really sad, others cry because they really, really don’t feel like having sex at the time and they’re forcing themselves to have intercourse, and some girls cry simply because.

In any case, a woman doesn’t have to be emotionally unstable in general to have something like this happen to her. While there’s usually a good reason behind it, a woman may begin crying during sex due to crazy hormones, which usually occurs during and after pregnancy.

But let’s focus on actual reasons that signify a more significant issue than crying during and after sex. Confusing feelings, physical pain, stress, frustrations, cheating, end of a relationship – these and more could all be hiding behind your girlfriend’s tears that you may witness while having sex with her. Whatever it is, you can bet all you have that something like this should be resolved without hesitation.

How to Fix it?

As we’ve said before, the cause for a girl crying during sex can go anywhere from very serious to very harmless. We will now look into “fixing” both sides of this spectrum appropriately.

If the reason is something serious, you and your girl need to talk about it not only to stop that from happening again but also to resolve whatever conflict or issue is causing such behavior. Some of those “heavy” reasons we’ve already mentioned could lead to you two not having sex with each other ever again if left unresolved.

On the other hand, if it turns out to be something benign, there’s no need to dwell on it for long. Sure, you can talk about it and figure out what both of you can do to prevent it in the future, but problems like these generally resolve themselves after a while.

At the end of the day, no type of sex should ever make a woman cry. If it happens, rush to her and comfort her, but also make sure to get to the bottom of things so that it doesn’t happen again and so that any serious problems that might be causing it can get solved.

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How to Get Over Anxiety about First-Time Hookups?

Hooking up has been around since the dawn of civilization. It started as casual orgies on rich people’s parties, it maintained itself through the Renaissance, and it has ultimately become something of an everyday thing that can be found in a local club or on a transgender dating site.

Still, not all of us are outgoing enough so that we have no issue approaching someone or being approached for casual sex. In that regard, here are a couple of pro tips on how to get over anxiety about first-time hookups.

  1. Don’t Pressure Yourself

The main reason why people get the hookup jitters is that they force themselves into believing that they have to perform extraordinarily or that something crucial is riding on this hookup (pun intended).

However, in reality, there’s nothing special about hooking up. Admittedly, we could say that having casual sex with someone you’ve just met is healthy every now and again – for psychological and physical reasons, of course – but there are no real dangerous consequences to safe, casual sex.

 

  1. Don’t Overthink It

Another big reason why you might be getting that casual sex anxiety might be because you’re overthinking things. By doing this, you’re going back to step one, where you’re pressuring yourself again just because you can’t help but imagine every possible (and impossible) scenario that may or may not unfold during and after your hookup.

Remember that, after all, it is casual sex. Instead of planning or trying to predict possible outcomes of a hookup, just go in cool-headed and relaxed – no matter what happens, you still had sex with someone.

 

  1. Be in the Moment

Once again, we have to note that overthinking about hooking up with someone is wrong. The best alternative to this is to live in the moment since that’s pretty much the definition of casual sex.

Hookups are all about being with someone for a very brief period after which neither of you is required to meet ever again. This is literally the bluntest form of “being in the moment,” and it’s an excellent method of killing any hookup jitters that you might be having.

This way, you won’t be burdening yourself with various trivial things that have little or nothing to do with the actual act of hooking up with a stranger. Instead, you’ll be enjoying every moment of it – from that first couple of messages you exchange with your partner-in-crime, the sexual act itself to the part where you don’t have to contact them afterward, leaving you satisfied and with no strings attached.

 

  1. Talk

It might sound counterintuitive, but talking to the person you’re hooking up with about the process you’re going through with them and even about your anxiety will most likely alleviate most of the stress that you might be feeling.

This is, hardships are always more bearable when shared with others. If you do this, it may even turn out that the other person is even more nervous than you, which usually leads to sweet and hot sex.