Why not – nowhere does it say it has to be the only gift. And even if it were, men just go crazy when a girl puts on a little bit of lace and silk. Some of us feel silly dressing up in sexy lingerie for a boyfriend/husband who’s seen us naked a million times, and speaking of naked, there are plenty of girls out there who feel much better without any clothes on, lingerie included. On the other hand, most guys out there can’t resist sexy bras, panties, nighties, and so on because they are a huge turn on. Regardless of whether your biker dating days are long gone because you’ve been married for years or you’ve just met a hunk you want to impress, buying sexy lingerie and presenting yourself as his birthday gift is a great idea, and below we discuss the reasons why.
#1: A Trial Period
If you’re not the type to wear lingerie to bed often, we suggest a little experiment to see how your partner reacts to it. Try wearing different lingerie to bed every night for seven nights in a row. Mind you, pick any week in your calendar no matter how busy or tired you both are because that’s how you can get the least biased experiment data. If you pack a bag full of lingerie for your vacation, you won’t get a true feel for the situation because everything is much easier when you’re away from your daily responsibilities. Pick a random week and see if the magic happens. In all likelihood, it will, especially if you take your partner by surprise. You can expect to set your sex life on fire with this move, and he’ll only beg you for more.
#2: Wear What You’re Comfortable In
Your partner finds you sexy no matter what you put on, which is why there is no need to wear any kind of lingerie that you’re uncomfortable in just because you think he’d like it. Obviously, you’d take his wishes into consideration, but you wouldn’t put on something that makes you feel ridiculous or unpleasant. The reason for this is simple – you’re the sexiest when you feel sexy. If his birthday falls on a weekend and neither of you has to go to work, purchase a few sexy lingerie outfits and play dress up in the morning, in the afternoon, and at night, but don’t tell him that in advance. If it’s a work day, get one outfit and make him a cake, and make sure you use the frosting for foreplay. There are lots of ways you can take this one gift that you’re really not buying for him, and turn it into a memorable birthday surprise.
#3: What He’ll Love the Most
If you get more than one lingerie outfit or if you have sex more than once off of one outfit, what your partner will love the most in the intimacy and the fact that you’re feeling particularly close to one another because you did something outside of your regular routine. Notwithstanding the fact he’ll love your desire to please him, what he’ll enjoy even more is the confidence that you bring into the bedroom. Don’t even for one second think that any of it is fake because you’re wearing something that usually just sits forgotten in the bottom drawer. The lingerie is just a little nudge in the right direction where the fireworks await.