For many years, men were hesitant to give their better halves some oral pleasure. Fortunately, this is not the case today, since most fellas don’t have a problem with going down on their gals. Women are always craving for some oral lovin’, so it doesn’t matter if you’re into mature ladies, young girls, or women from the BBW dating niche, sooner or later, your girlfriend will expect you to go down on her. This is exactly why you need to be prepared for such an occasion.

So, if you’re not very skillful when it comes to oral sex, check out some of the best positions, tips, and techniques that will help you master the art of cunnilingus.

Find The Perfect Position

The very first thing you need to know about oral sex is that every woman requires a certain amount of comfort and time to reach climax. So, it’s essential to pick a sexy and comfortable position for the both of you.

We recommend that you lay your woman on her back while making sure her hips are right on the edge of the bed. This way, you’ll be able to kneel in front of the bed and do your thing without getting tired or uncomfortable. Remember, this can take a while, so make sure to kneel on something soft.

Long Foreplay Is Crucial

Even though you’re probably ready to dive right in, rushing oral sex is a huge mistake. Just like with regular intercourse, most women need extended and sensual foreplay in order to relax and get in the mood. So, if you want her orgasm to be intense, you’ll need to warm her up first. Kiss and caress her entire body until she can’t wait any longer.

Don’t Go Straight For The Clitoris At First

Despite the fact that it’s the most sensitive spot on a woman’s vagina, you should never go straight to the clitoris. Instead, you should explore other parts of her genitals (like vulva for example) until she begs you to play with her clitoris. This anticipation will definitely make her orgasm more intense.

Feel Free To Use Your Fingers Too

One of the best ways to make oral sex great is by using your fingers. You might think that fingers have nothing to do with oral sex, but you would be wrong. If you really want to make her cum, you should know that stimulating her clitoris and her g-spot at the same time is the most efficient way to make her scream with pleasure.

Figure Out What She Likes And Keep Doing It Until She Reaches The Climax

Even though it’s always good to experiment and try new things when you’re down there, once you find a move that makes her moan with pleasure, it’s really important to stick to it. This is the only way she’ll be able to reach an intense orgasm. So, if you notice that she likes a particular move, keep doing what you’re doing until she screams out your name.


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