Female sexuality is nowhere near as explored as male sexuality in many parts of the world. Only recently have we started openly talking about it and embracing it as something worthy of everyone’s attention. Our mothers and their mothers before them would have children and mostly forget that they were women too, but this has changed tremendously as evident from all the books, articles, movies, talk shows, and any other form of media or communication supporting women to learn to love their bodies again after the babies come. Still, this is an unexplored territory for many men out there, even those who’re into cougar dating and have women by their side who are very much in tune with their sexuality. That’s why we’re like to talk about the 3 things that still elude the opposite sex when it comes to how women perceive and experience sex.

#1: The Sexiest Male Organ

You’ve probably explored the clitoris to no end (do it if you haven’t!), but there is much more to female sexuality than their sex organs. For instance, physical attraction and thus a physical pleasure for women is based on so much more than a guy’s looks. Many men out there still aren’t sure what women find to be the sexiest male organ. Without a doubt, most women think the brain is the single most appealing part of any man. The reason for this is quite simple – women don’t fall for the physical appearance as much as they fall for a guy’s intellectual abilities, sense of humor, and interesting life story. Obviously, nobody is denying the power of chemistry, but for women, this chemistry is the strongest with someone they like as a person, not with someone who looks like a living and breathing embodiment of Tom Hardy sitting 3 feet away. The more women like a guy for his personality, the stronger their physical pleasure will be.

#2: Women Choose Differently

Male and female sexuality are different primarily because male and female reproductive cycles are worlds apart. While an average male can have thousands upon thousands of kids in his lifetime in theory, an average woman can only have one child every nine months for a period of about 30 years. In other words, sperm is cheap. It’s everywhere and readily available, and men don’t care very much as to how they ‘invest’ their sex cells because they have plenty! Furthermore, they find young and pretty girls the most attractive because they are healthy and fertile.

For women, the process of choosing a partner is about a million times more complicated because their sex cells aren’t cheap at all. What women want is to feel safe and taken care of in the arms of their partners, which is why they’re often attracted to rich and powerful men. They need this security to ensure their sex cells don’t go to waste. As you can see, men’s looks have very little to do with it. In the real world, a guy who isn’t rich can get the hottest girl in the room, but he has to make her feel like he can provide everything she needs. Plus, if he’s smart and has a good sense of humor – in her eyes he’s the sexiest man alive and her pleasure is all but guaranteed!

#3: It’s Better to be a Woman

Just because the topic of female sexuality isn’t as widely talked about doesn’t mean that men know better sex than women. On the contrary! Consider this. All babies have the exact same genital tissue when they’re conceived, and at about 12 weeks each baby’s genitals begin to develop into those of a man or a woman. This means we’re much more alike than we are different in terms of our sex organs, or in other words, the clitoris and the penis are the same materials put together in a different way. The clitoris has glans, a foreskin, erectile tissue, and a very small shaft – just like a penis. Obviously, it swells when it’s aroused.

Now consider this. A clitoral orgasm can result in anywhere between 3 and 16 contractions and can last from 10 seconds to 30 seconds. Research suggests that an average clitoral orgasm lasts longer than the best and most fantastic male orgasm. And this doesn’t even include the fact that women can have pelvic contractions too – or multiple orgasms. Sorry, guys.

It doesn’t matter if they’re dating skinny girls, women from the BBW dating sites, or mature cougars, men everywhere have sexual fantasies that they want their women to try during sex. In most cases, they are too shy to ask, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want to try them eventually. Therefore, we’ve decided to list the top 4 most common fantasies guys want women to do during intercourse.

Threesome with Her Best Friend

This is probably the most common sexual fantasy out there, but it’s also incredibly risky. Naturally, a lot of girls out there are not interested in sharing their significant other, not even with their best friends. That said, it’s perfectly understandable that few guys out there are brave enough to suggest something like this to their lovers. Of course, there are guys who are in open relationships and they’re usually the ones who get to experience this particular fantasy.

Public Sex

There are thousands of men who get excited every time they fantasize about having sex in public. There is something purely animalistic about not hiding yourself during sex. This and the possibility of getting caught in the act are the things that make this fantasy so exciting. Girls, on the other hand, consider sex to be the most intimate moment between them and their romantic companions. So, naturally, they want to do it in the privacy and comfort of their own bedroom. However, some girls want to feel that same rush. So, if you have this fantasy and your girl is up for it, consider yourself lucky.

Doing It in Front of a Camera

Most men, especially teenage boys, want to be porn stars. However, as they grow up, this particular life choice becomes less appealing. Nevertheless, the fantasy of having sex in front of a camera somehow remains. This is why many guys out there are trying to convince their girlfriends that making a home video or a sex tape is a good idea. Most girls don’t want even to consider it, but there are women that are open to it. However, there is one big downside to this sexual fantasy and that’s the dilemma of who gets the sex tape in case of a breakup.

Role Playing

Regular and fulfilling sex is something that most men and women want to have in their lives. However, some couples can often find themselves stuck in a rut. When this happens, some guys tend to suggest role-playing as a way of rekindling the flame. Men sometimes want to escape from their own personas and try out some new characters. It simply turns them on. The most common role-playing fantasies include a police officer and someone breaking the law, a prison guard and an inmate, and a hero and a damsel in distress. Not all women are open to these fantasies, but most guys out there are willing to try them out, at least once in their life.