14 Foreplay Tips to Please Your Woman

While some men strongly believe that foreplay is a nuisance only women love, others think that this is the sexiest part of making love. Either way, it doesn’t matter if you’re trying to make love to your wife or you’re about to have some sexy time with a girl you picked up on a BBW dating website, there are some things about foreplay you should know. This is why we want to look into 14 essential tips that will allow any guy to please his lady in the best way possible, so go ahead and keep reading.

 

  1. Massage

Although we can get a lot of wrong ideas from movies, massaging your partner is actually one of the best ways to initiate foreplay and therefore sex. Moreover, it’s a relaxing activity that includes a fair amount of physical contact – what more could you ask for?

 

  1. Talk About it

Instead of trying out various things you saw in porn movies, it’s always smarter to talk to your partner and try to find out what turns her on. Explain that you want to make sure you do all the right things to her and, believe us, she’ll appreciate it.

 

  1. Easy Start

If you’re thinking of oral sex, try not to go in too hard. Clitoris play is always a good idea, but it’s much better to start things off softly and to increase the intensity over time.

 

  1. Quality over Quantity

It’s not all about doing things long and without pause – you have to feel her rhythm and then follow it. That way, you’ll have to do much less to get your woman excited.

 

  1. One-Trick Pony

Stimulating her clitoris as part of the foreplay is fun and all, but it’s always better to expand your repertoire a bit. Being a one-trick pony isn’t fun for too long.

 

  1. Labia-Play

Men often think of the labia as a simple border of the vagina, while some even call them the “curtains to the main show.” However, this part has nearly as many nerve endings as the clitoris, which means it also deserves your attention.

 

  1. Figure 8

One of the best ways to give head to a woman is to use the figure 8. This basically means that you should move your tongue on and around the clitoris so that you draw the shape of the number 8. It drives women crazy for some reason!

 

  1. No Talking

Sure, there are some girls who love dirty-talking during foreplay, but most of them don’t. In that regard, try not to talk too much during this time.

 

  1. Exploring the Areas

The crotch is the erogenous zone for most women, but there are other parts of them that can also be fun to play with. We’re talking breasts, buttons, legs, belly, hips and more.

 

  1. Her Feelings

Each and every one of us is different, which means we all prefer different stuff. Pay attention to how she feels about the things you’re doing during foreplay and you’ll quickly figure out what works and what doesn’t.

 

  1. Your Feelings

Just like your lady, you have feelings as well. This is why you shouldn’t force yourself to do things you aren’t comfortable with – after all, sex is compromise.

 

  1. Rewards

In most cases, men are those who initiate foreplay and sex. So, if she’s the one making the first step, make sure you put in extra effort to make that foreplay amazing.

 

  1. Kissing

Foreplay is a lot of things, but the most fundamental part of it is kissing. Don’t forget to give her a kiss every once in a while during foreplay to let her know you’re not doing all this just because you like sex, but because you like her.

 

  1. Calculate

There’s no denying that foreplay is fun. However, not everyone is always in the mood for it. Sometimes foreplay can ruin everything, so try to assess the situation and determine whether it should even be included in the process.

 

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Struggling With The First Orgasm – 7 Factors Affecting Orgasm In Women

 

It doesn’t matter if you prefer to meet people online or in person, you’re probably doing it in order to sleep with them or start a long-term relationship.

Either way, you’ll have to get intimate with them sooner or later. However great and exciting this may sound at first, it can also be pretty awkward and unpleasant, especially if you’re struggling when it comes to orgasm.

So, if you can’t have an orgasm during sex, you should definitely stick around and check out these seven factors that are affecting orgasm in women.

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Sex so Good it Makes you Cry: Why Women Cry in the Middle of Having Sex

You know when you meet a girl via a friend, or you find one on a cougar dating site, and you find out that she sometimes cries during sex, so you immediately start backing away? Well, it happens more often than you’d think and, more importantly, there’s always a valid reason behind it.

As it happens, if a woman cries during intercourse, it doesn’t necessarily have to be bad. There’s no denying that this situation is a mood-killer 99% of the time (the one percent being fetishists who actually enjoy that sort of thing),  and it usually signifies a more profound reason that should be assessed ASAP. In that regard, here’s why women cry in the middle of having sex.

The Reason Behind

Even though there is always a deep reason behind a woman crying mid-coitus, the reason itself can vary a lot from one girl to another. Some women cry because they suddenly remembered something really sad, others cry because they really, really don’t feel like having sex at the time and they’re forcing themselves to have intercourse, and some girls cry simply because.

In any case, a woman doesn’t have to be emotionally unstable in general to have something like this happen to her. While there’s usually a good reason behind it, a woman may begin crying during sex due to crazy hormones, which usually occurs during and after pregnancy.

But let’s focus on actual reasons that signify a more significant issue than crying during and after sex. Confusing feelings, physical pain, stress, frustrations, cheating, end of a relationship – these and more could all be hiding behind your girlfriend’s tears that you may witness while having sex with her. Whatever it is, you can bet all you have that something like this should be resolved without hesitation.

How to Fix it?

As we’ve said before, the cause for a girl crying during sex can go anywhere from very serious to very harmless. We will now look into “fixing” both sides of this spectrum appropriately.

If the reason is something serious, you and your girl need to talk about it not only to stop that from happening again but also to resolve whatever conflict or issue is causing such behavior. Some of those “heavy” reasons we’ve already mentioned could lead to you two not having sex with each other ever again if left unresolved.

On the other hand, if it turns out to be something benign, there’s no need to dwell on it for long. Sure, you can talk about it and figure out what both of you can do to prevent it in the future, but problems like these generally resolve themselves after a while.

At the end of the day, no type of sex should ever make a woman cry. If it happens, rush to her and comfort her, but also make sure to get to the bottom of things so that it doesn’t happen again and so that any serious problems that might be causing it can get solved.