Orgasms are, by far, the most important part of any sexual experience. What’s the point of doing anything sexual if an orgasm isn’t waiting for you at the end of the road, right? While some people easily achieve climax, others have to go as far as checking gay and transgender dating sites for inspiration.

But aside from all that, there are rare situations in which an orgasm comes pretty much by itself, without any intentional stimulation. That said, let’s take a look at the weirdest places where people have reported to have a spontaneous orgasm.

 

1. Spin Class/Gym

Most people that go to the gym usually don’t get to enjoy anything before their training sessions are over. Working out is hard and can be pretty boring – unless you’re one of those women that have a spontaneous orgasm at the gym.

There are two situations where this can happen: during spin class and while performing ab exercises. The former can be easily explained by the fact that ladies are required to occasionally jump up and then sit down on a phallic-looking seat during their class, while intense ab workouts can cause a “coregasm” if the girl needs to strain herself a lot continuously.

 

2. Giving Birth

We don’t know whether to be freaked out or glad that an orgasm is something that can happen during childbirth. It’s rare, but not impossible for a woman to experience a spontaneous orgasm during labor.

If you sit down to think about it, it’s not that illogical. Giving birth to a baby can stimulate a lot of parts that would otherwise be stimulated while trying to reach an orgasm. Reportedly, it eases the pains of childbirth.

 

3. Rollercoasters

Who says that rollercoasters are just for raising one’s adrenaline? As it turns out, riding one of these bad boys at neck-break speeds can lead some ladies to experience much more than a cheap thrill.

Not everyone buys it, but numerous women have reported that they either had a full-blown orgasm or came close to one due to the intense vibrations and excitement created by a rollercoaster ride. The lines may be long and the ticket might be expensive, but this has proven to be one of the weirdest places to have a spontaneous orgasm.

 

4. Anywhere (while Yawning)

The yawn-induced spontaneous orgasm is probably the weirdest one, too. For starters, you need to be hopped up on clomipramine, which as an anti-depressant prescribed only to certain patients. Secondly, you have to be among the 5% of the drug’s users that experience the side effect of orgasm every time they yawn.

That’s right – according to the Canadian Journal of Psychiatry, the side effect of yawn-induced orgasms in clomipramine users was confirmed way back in 1995. However, another side effect is having a hard time reaching orgasm in normal ways.

Nobody can deny the importance of sexual desire in a relationship. Apart from some unconventional, platonic romances, all relationships between two partners need to nurture sex if they are to succeed. This applies to the members of straight and gay to cougar and transgender dating scenes.

However, maintaining a healthy sexual relationship with your partner isn’t a walk in the park. In most cases, the sex drive becomes weaker over the years, intercourse happens infrequently or stops altogether, and it’s usually only one partner that initiates sex.

If this is where you’re at right now or you fear that something like this might be just around the corner, here are 6 tips on how to spark sexual desire between you and your partner.

 

1. Kissing

Kissing is a very common activity between two partners, especially at the beginning of a romance. However, kissing each other has also proven to be one of the best ways to reignite that sexual flame.

A kiss has a multitude of meanings, with at least a few of them being related to sex. So, to get your partner’s attention and to send a message that you want them, it’s a good idea to kiss them more often on different parts of their body (especially the neck).

 

2. Remember the Old Days

Since we’ve mentioned the pink sunglasses of those initial two or three months of the relationship and the perfect state you and your partner were at the beginning of it, we have to mention how you can use this to reignite the sex spark. For instance, you can start reminiscing of those times with your partner and watch the situation quickly becoming sexual without either of you realizing it.

 

3. Mystery

The sexual desire between two partners has been known to dwindle due to the fact that you now know everything there is to know about your partner and vice versa. This means that if you were to add some mystery to your relationship yet again, you could spark that curiosity and desire that used to drive both of you into having sex with each other.

 

4. Improve Your Sexuality

A lot of us will start blaming a rut or our partners for not having sex as frequently as we used to. However, a lot of those times, we are the problem because we’ve lost touch with our own sexuality.

A good way to break this would be by reading a sex novel, examining our sexual fantasies with more thought and getting to know our own body all over again. You never know what may spark that immense hunger for sex within you.

 

5. Share in Good Times

It’s hard to have a strong sexual drive if you’re not in a good mood – and what better way to fix this than by increasing both your and your partner’s dopamine levels?

We suggest you do things with your partner that bring excitement and happiness to both of you, excluding sex. Pair up for a cooking class or join a book club to increase the overall mood and you’ll see how quickly you’ll both come around to sharing the bed together.

 

6. Spice it Up

Although not everyone is willing to try it, bringing sex toys into the bedroom is a pretty effective way to increase the interest and desire for sex in both of you. The sheer thought of doing something unconventional and kinky in the bedroom together has proven to be one of the best ways for a couple to rekindle the flame.

Female sexuality is nowhere near as explored as male sexuality in many parts of the world. Only recently have we started openly talking about it and embracing it as something worthy of everyone’s attention. Our mothers and their mothers before them would have children and mostly forget that they were women too, but this has changed tremendously as evident from all the books, articles, movies, talk shows, and any other form of media or communication supporting women to learn to love their bodies again after the babies come. Still, this is an unexplored territory for many men out there, even those who’re into cougar dating and have women by their side who are very much in tune with their sexuality. That’s why we’re like to talk about the 3 things that still elude the opposite sex when it comes to how women perceive and experience sex.

#1: The Sexiest Male Organ

You’ve probably explored the clitoris to no end (do it if you haven’t!), but there is much more to female sexuality than their sex organs. For instance, physical attraction and thus a physical pleasure for women is based on so much more than a guy’s looks. Many men out there still aren’t sure what women find to be the sexiest male organ. Without a doubt, most women think the brain is the single most appealing part of any man. The reason for this is quite simple – women don’t fall for the physical appearance as much as they fall for a guy’s intellectual abilities, sense of humor, and interesting life story. Obviously, nobody is denying the power of chemistry, but for women, this chemistry is the strongest with someone they like as a person, not with someone who looks like a living and breathing embodiment of Tom Hardy sitting 3 feet away. The more women like a guy for his personality, the stronger their physical pleasure will be.

#2: Women Choose Differently

Male and female sexuality are different primarily because male and female reproductive cycles are worlds apart. While an average male can have thousands upon thousands of kids in his lifetime in theory, an average woman can only have one child every nine months for a period of about 30 years. In other words, sperm is cheap. It’s everywhere and readily available, and men don’t care very much as to how they ‘invest’ their sex cells because they have plenty! Furthermore, they find young and pretty girls the most attractive because they are healthy and fertile.

For women, the process of choosing a partner is about a million times more complicated because their sex cells aren’t cheap at all. What women want is to feel safe and taken care of in the arms of their partners, which is why they’re often attracted to rich and powerful men. They need this security to ensure their sex cells don’t go to waste. As you can see, men’s looks have very little to do with it. In the real world, a guy who isn’t rich can get the hottest girl in the room, but he has to make her feel like he can provide everything she needs. Plus, if he’s smart and has a good sense of humor – in her eyes he’s the sexiest man alive and her pleasure is all but guaranteed!

#3: It’s Better to be a Woman

Just because the topic of female sexuality isn’t as widely talked about doesn’t mean that men know better sex than women. On the contrary! Consider this. All babies have the exact same genital tissue when they’re conceived, and at about 12 weeks each baby’s genitals begin to develop into those of a man or a woman. This means we’re much more alike than we are different in terms of our sex organs, or in other words, the clitoris and the penis are the same materials put together in a different way. The clitoris has glans, a foreskin, erectile tissue, and a very small shaft – just like a penis. Obviously, it swells when it’s aroused.

Now consider this. A clitoral orgasm can result in anywhere between 3 and 16 contractions and can last from 10 seconds to 30 seconds. Research suggests that an average clitoral orgasm lasts longer than the best and most fantastic male orgasm. And this doesn’t even include the fact that women can have pelvic contractions too – or multiple orgasms. Sorry, guys.