Why not – nowhere does it say it has to be the only gift. And even if it were, men just go crazy when a girl puts on a little bit of lace and silk. Some of us feel silly dressing up in sexy lingerie for a boyfriend/husband who’s seen us naked a million times, and speaking of naked, there are plenty of girls out there who feel much better without any clothes on, lingerie included. On the other hand, most guys out there can’t resist sexy bras, panties, nighties, and so on because they are a huge turn on. Regardless of whether your biker dating days are long gone because you’ve been married for years or you’ve just met a hunk you want to impress, buying sexy lingerie and presenting yourself as his birthday gift is a great idea, and below we discuss the reasons why.
#1: A Trial Period
If you’re not the type to wear lingerie to bed often, we suggest a little experiment to see how your partner reacts to it. Try wearing different lingerie to bed every night for seven nights in a row. Mind you, pick any week in your calendar no matter how busy or tired you both are because that’s how you can get the least biased experiment data. If you pack a bag full of lingerie for your vacation, you won’t get a true feel for the situation because everything is much easier when you’re away from your daily responsibilities. Pick a random week and see if the magic happens. In all likelihood, it will, especially if you take your partner by surprise. You can expect to set your sex life on fire with this move, and he’ll only beg you for more.
#2: Wear What You’re Comfortable In
Your partner finds you sexy no matter what you put on, which is why there is no need to wear any kind of lingerie that you’re uncomfortable in just because you think he’d like it. Obviously, you’d take his wishes into consideration, but you wouldn’t put on something that makes you feel ridiculous or unpleasant. The reason for this is simple – you’re the sexiest when you feel sexy. If his birthday falls on a weekend and neither of you has to go to work, purchase a few sexy lingerie outfits and play dress up in the morning, in the afternoon, and at night, but don’t tell him that in advance. If it’s a work day, get one outfit and make him a cake, and make sure you use the frosting for foreplay. There are lots of ways you can take this one gift that you’re really not buying for him, and turn it into a memorable birthday surprise.
#3: What He’ll Love the Most
If you get more than one lingerie outfit or if you have sex more than once off of one outfit, what your partner will love the most in the intimacy and the fact that you’re feeling particularly close to one another because you did something outside of your regular routine. Notwithstanding the fact he’ll love your desire to please him, what he’ll enjoy even more is the confidence that you bring into the bedroom. Don’t even for one second think that any of it is fake because you’re wearing something that usually just sits forgotten in the bottom drawer. The lingerie is just a little nudge in the right direction where the fireworks await.
CEO/FOUNDER: WASTELAND INC.
As the founder and CEO of Wasteland.com, the Internet's oldest and most popular BDSM and alternative sexuality site, Colin Rowntree is a true pioneer of the online adult entertainment industry. Since launching Wasteland.com in 1994, Colin has developed a network of sites that encompasses the full breadth of adult business sectors, from content production and distribution to affiliate program management, mobile content delivery to transaction processing, just to name a handful. Colin's stature within the adult industry is reflected by the many honors and recognitions he has received over the years from adult industry media outlets and trade organizations, including his 2011 induction to the Adult Video News (AVN) Hall of Fame. Colin was also the recipient of the 2011 Leadership Award from the Free Speech Coalition (FSC) and winner of multiple awards from other adult media outlets.
Most recently, Colin co-founded Boodigo.com, a privacy-focused adult internet search engine that supports the adult industry in many ways.
An eloquent, witty and thought-provoking commentator, Colin is a frequent contributor to industry trade publications and websites, including Adult Video News and other media outlets. He has been interviewed by and featured on International Business Times, CNBC, Rolling Stone Magazine, BBC Television, the Fox Network, HBO, ABC Nightline, NewsCorp, Time and Wired magazines, Cnet.com and Bnet.com.Most recently, Colin was awarded the 2015 Progressive Leadership of the Year XBIZ Executive Award.
Latest posts by admin (see all)
- Legal Sex Worker: “Don’t Release Robert Kraft Sex Tape!” - April 23, 2019
- Adult Time Announces Channel Partnership with BDSM/Fetish Studio Wasteland - April 22, 2019
- Pure Taboo Hatches an All-New Future Darkly Episode, ‘The Breeding Pod’ - April 18, 2019